Friday, May 30, 2008

Birthdays, Beer and Pizza.

In the time honored tradition of birthdays I spent Thursday evening with friends celebrating our pal, Mike's birthday at Happy Joe's. Granted I've been more fond of Paradiso parties with their delicious queso and margaritas, but I don't mind a Blue Moon and a generous helping of pepperoni pizza now and then. After we stuffed ourselves, we played in the fun room arcade area and I actually found myself pumping dollars into the token machine and playing some sort of game involving balls and me aiming them. Not my forte, but I played along and was terrifickly bad.

We racked up enough tickets for a Care Bear fuzzy pen but not quite enough for the Magic 8 Ball Pam was coveting. Mike settled on the generous prize... a set of four ring suckers which left my lips an embarrassing blue for the rest of the evening... an outing to the Parrot's Cay where went to karaoke, or I should clarify, we WATCHED others do karaoke. I just can't get brave enough. Not with a crowd. I need the happy box sort of karaoke where I am safe and enclosed with only friends. Then I think I could get wild.

One highlight of the evening was running in to two former students from years ago who made me feel like a rock star and a valued person in their formative years. It apparently deserved a beer, cause that's what they did, they bought me a beer. Then they proceeded to sing the praises of our good old school and how it changed them forever, and we had a good old catching up time complete with looking at wallet pictures of adorable children and hearing gossip about other former students and all the truly great things they are up to... professional photographers and master's degrees in Chinese and the works. It all shaped up to be an entertaining evening full of unexpected adventures.

Monday, May 26, 2008

A little Madness in the Spring is wholesome even for the king -- Emily Dickinson


Lines Written In Early Spring
by William Wordsworth
I heard a thousand blended notes,
While in a grove I sate reclined,
In that sweet mood when pleasant thoughts
Bring sad thoughts to the mind.

To her fair works did Nature link
The human soul that through me ran;
And much it grieved my heart to think
What man has made of man.

Through primrose tufts, in that green bower,
The periwinkle trailed its wreaths;
And 'tis my faith that every flower
Enjoys the air it breathes.

The birds around me hopped and played,
Their thoughts I cannot measure:--
But the least motion which they made
It seemed a thrill of pleasure.

The budding twigs spread out their fan,
To catch the breezy air;
And I must think, do all I can,
That there was pleasure there.

If this belief from heaven be sent,
If such be Nature's holy plan,
Have I not reason to lament
What man has made of man?



Sunday, May 25, 2008

Remembering a Remarkable Man.


To me, Leo was as one half of the dynamic duo -- Sally and Leo. Sally, who praises my Christmas letter every year and actually writes back with a wonderful personal letter. Leo, who was always with his camera. My earliest memories of Leo involved him taking pictures. Later, when I saw some of the photos in his collection I discovered a treasure. Not only did Leo take beautiful pictures, but he captured generations of family history. Yesterday was a memorial service and once again I was overwhelmed by this dear man. He was always a very special person. Unique, fascinating, spunky, smart. And listening to the stories and meeting more of his family and his beloved neighbors I was reminded even more of the wonder that was Leo. The world was a better place with him in it. He will be missed.

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Leopold "Leo" Kaiser passed away in Fargo, North Dakota on May 11, 2008. He was born in Chicago, Illinois on May 29, 1913 to Peter and Charlotte Sturtz Kaiser, and was raised in Fond du Lac, Wisconsin. On April 23, 1939, he married his wife, Selina, and they lived in Fargo for most of their 69 years together. At the time of his passing, they were together in their own home.

More than anything, Leo enjoyed working, which started early for him at a family farm in Wisconsin, and continued from his paper route as a young boy, from which he earned the money to buy a family car, to his nearly 60 years in the shoe business. His shoe business career started with Kinny Shoes and continued in Fargo for Moody’s Department Store and Hall Allen Shoe Company. In 1954 he and his wife started Kaiser Shoes in Moorhead, and later added the Red Wing Shoe Store in Fargo. From these local stores he served customers, locally and around the world, who had unusual sizes or unique foot challenges.

Leo served in World War II, where he lost an eye, but managed to adjust and compensate for this disability throughout his life.

Beyond his work, Leo loved photography and providing a firm handshake. He was quite an amateur photographer, and has cataloged over 50,000 slides. He was one of the first people in the area, in the late 1940’s, to develop his own color prints. In retirement, starting at age 72, he was a volunteer at Dakota Boys Ranch and the Salvation Army stores, where he fixed cameras and helped with other needed services. For the last several years he was a constant walker and bike rider in Prairiewood. Not only did he walk or ride his bike 1,200 miles in 2007 at the age of 93, but he documented it. When his son, Marv, suggested that he should perhaps think about the safety factor of switching to a 3-wheel bike, Leo chose to ignore this advice, and continued riding his 2-wheeled version with the little bell he would ring in greeting to all the neighbors he would pass.

He is survived by his wife Selina "Sally" and his son Marvin (Joyce) of Williston; two granddaughters, Shannon (Shane) Street, and their two daughters, Kaitlin and Gracee; Dr. Susan Kaiser and her fiancé, Ken Posey, all of Austin Texas. He is also survived by his brother, Immanual, of Fond du Lac, Wisconsin, and many nieces and nephews and their families.

He will be missed by all the wonderful neighbors who have befriended him, and made him and his wife part of their families (and also borrowed his tools).

Preceding him in death are his parents; brother, Peter; and sisters, Irene and Irma; along with an infant brother, Gerhart.

There will be no funeral service at this time, but a memorial service will be announced at a later date.

Published Tuesday, May 13, 2008 in The Fargo Forum

Friday, May 23, 2008

Some Things Never Change.

I have a friend who likes to harrass me for my minimal reactions to films. Lately my most typical responses go something like this: "It was okay" or "It was good." The following are what passes for my movie reactions or "reviews" from the depths of THE diary. For some reason these just crack me up.

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Monday June 18, 1984
... I feel sad at heart because of the most wonderful show on television was just on. It was called "Somewhere in Time." I must see that show again. I must. It had the saddest ending. The main character was played by Christopher Reeve "Superman."
Love, Carmyn

Thursday June 21, 1984
D.D.
Heather K. called today. She got back yesterday. I told her the whole story of "Somewhere in Time." Then she told me something about a show called "Vacation." It sounded pretty dumb to me...

Sunday June 24, 1984
D.D.
Today mom said that Footloose was playing at the Outdoor Theatre and she took me to it. I loved it. A lot of swearing in the movie. This was the first outdoor I've ever been to. It started at 20 minutes after 10 o'clock. It lasted until 12:30. "Footloose" is a great song. "Give the Boy a Hand" is too. Today I baked a chicken pot pie. It tipped over on the stove. I put the filling back in it and nobody even knows it spilled. It was delicious.
Love, Carmyn

Thursday July 12, 1984
.... I weeded 7 rows and I'm getting $3.50. And I'm saving. It rained real hard and it also hailed hail the sized of MARBLES. We went to Romancing the Stone. It was great.
Love, Carmyn

Sunday July 22, 1984
....Tuesday I am going to the fair. My dog got in a fight with a groundhog in our yard! And my mom gave me her old camera and some film. I watched part of Shogun. It's good.
Love, Carmyn

Saturday August 18, 1984
.... Tonight we went to the movie, Jason, Lori, me, Michelle, and Jenna and well, mom too! It was called "Gremlins" about a cute little mogwai (a little bear cub creature) his name was "gizmo" and you can't get him wet or he'll multiply and he hates bright lights and sunlight will kill him. And most important rule, don't feed him after midnight or they turn mean. It's really a stupid and scary show. I didn't like it at all.
Love, Carmyn

Saturday September 1, 1984
... When we got to the mall we went to B. Daltons and I bought a book. Then we went to the movie The Karate Kid. It was so good! I liked it better than any Star Wars movies....
Love, Carmyn

Saturday, May 17, 2008

She and Him.

My pal Sean shared a song from this album by Zooey Deschanel and M. Ward a few weeks ago and I loved it. Now, with the whole album at my fingertips I am loving her even more. What's even better is that Deschanel wrote most of the songs on the album. My current favorite is "Change is Hard." When I first heard her sing in the Christmas film, Elf, a few years ago, I was impressed. Now I am in love. These songs make me happy. Check them out here.

Friday, May 16, 2008

He got it right.


Seriously, what is wrong with me? One of the highlights of my week was watching the Bachelor season finale. It just makes me happy. It's delicious and I feel naughty and common and ridiculous watching lame reality TV. After the last season I swore I was done. But then they had this great bachelor on and I couldn't resist. It was the most civil season, among the girls that mattered and there seemed to be quite a handful of substantial real girls. I was impressed with the final four and really believed that any one of them might be the one. But secretly I wanted it to be Shayne. She was my favorite from the start. Apparently, Matt's favorite too. I have no idea if things will work for them. But I'm hopeful. I think they are a sweet couple. Matt and his little monkey.

Monday, May 12, 2008

Eat This, Not That!


Recently I picked up a copy of David Zinczenko's book Eat This Not That! and I will admit I find it fascinating. It features eight chapters of full color, info packed pages--each chapter, with a different emphasis.

The first identifies 8 foods you should eat every day and 20 to avoid at all costs. Yes to yogurt and black beans (probably not together! blech!). No to a Burger King Triple Whopper with Cheese, Fries, and a King size Coke. (2200 calories)

Chapter two examines 60 different restaurants and identifies the best and worst meals to be found and why. Even though my community doesn't have many of the restaurants in the book, it's the WHY that I find particularly helpful. Here's one thing I learned--mayo is the devil.

Chapter three offers a menu decoder that provides strategies for eating right at any restaurant. Avoid taco salads, soy sauce, and iceberg lettuce.

Chapter four provides a holiday survival guide.

Chapter five takes you through different products you might buy at a supermarket. Avoid the Lean Cuisine butternut squash ravioli.

Chapter six provies a healthy beverage guide.

Chapter seven suggests the right foods for dealing with all kinds of situations: stress, when you are trying to have a baby, when you want a good workout, etc. Peppermint tea helps with stress. Spinach salad is good for the sad.

Chapter eight has suggestions for kids.

Sunday, May 04, 2008

Reading Watching, Listening..... April in Review

What I Was Reading in April
How to Hepburn by Karen Karbo
Into the Wild by Sarah Beth Durst
What the Dickens by Gregory Maguire
The Red Shoe by Ursula Dubosarsky
Golden Legacy: How Golden Books Won Children's Hearts, Changed Publishing Forever, and Became An American Icon Along the Way by Leonard S. Marcus
"Is It Done Yet?": Teaching Adolescents the Art of Revision by Barry Gilmore

This month I read a plethora of young adult or juvenile level books. Into the Wild isn't about Christopher McCandless, though I've read that one too. This is a foray into the "wild" of fairy tale books. It was only okay as was What the Dickens. I had high hopes since I loved Wicked so much. Maguire's story about the Tooth Fairy had to be great, right? Wrong. I am sure some youngster might enjoy it, but it lacked something for me. I would give both books a c+ and Red Shoe was more like a C-. First of all, it was terribly depressing. Secondly it was unclear and vague in its plot line and I never truly felt resolution over some of the issues in the story. I wouldn't recommend it, even though it's written by Avi's wife, another reason I'd hoped to enjoy it.

The tribute to Golden Books was a cool book, full of publishing house history and wonderful illustrations straight out of the pages of many beloved Golden Books. If you loved the books, you might enjoy this one too.

How to Hepburn was much more of a biography than a true "how to" book and I got a big kick out of this one.

The Gilmore book on revision is one I read for my professional book group and it was a bit intense. I'm still working on it, even though we've met and moved on. I can see ideas that are workable and will stretch me as a teacher of writing, but I also see his ideals as possibly being beyond some of my students. I need to find a way to make that not so. Sigh.


What I was Watching in April

On TV
Lost
Heroes season 1 on DVD
The Bachelor: London Calling
Dancing With the Stars
The Office
30 Rock
Brothers and Sisters
Desperate Housewives

Of course I am giddy that Lost is finally back on. It's the highlight of the week. Dancing with the Stars is so clearly Kristi Yamaguchi's year, but I've enjoyed watching all of the dancers. I guess it's just a little more "blah" to me... maybe I'm burnt out on dancing?

I started watching The Bachelor again even though I'd sworn it off. I really like this one. Shayne is my favorite, though I'm a little surprised she's still in the game. I totally agreed with his choice of the last four women, but when he ditched Noelle, I was disappointed. I would have cut Chelsea loose, and then he ditched Amanda too. Hmmm. Maybe he and Chelsea and he ARE meant to be. I'm still hoping it will be Shayne.

I watched one episode of Heroes Season 1 last January and didn't start it all up again until this month and now I'm utterly and completely hooked. I love it. I'm a little over half done with the season. Yum.

Film on TCM
Paris When it Sizzles

This is an unprecedented month... I rented nothing on DVD and saw nothing in the theatre. I managed to watch this film one day on TCM and I love Audrey Hepburn so that made it fun. She and William Holden are working on a screenplay. He's the famous writer, she's there to type it up. It reminded me a bit of that film Alex and Emma with Kate Hudson a few years ago, only I liked this one a bit better. Overall, it wasn't my favorite classic film or anything, but it was worth the time spent.


What I Was Listening to in April

Yankee Hotel Foxtrot by Wilco
Sky Blue Sky by Wilco
Wincing the Night Away by The Shins
Say I Am You by The Weepies
Across the Universe soundtrack

I really love this Shins CD. I need to explore their previous work and see if I like it as much. I was listening to The Weepies in preparation for buying their latest release. Wilco was all about the concert but now I'm all in love with them. And my three favorite songs on the Across the Universe Soundtrack are the first four songs: "All My Loving," "I Want to Hold Your Hand," "It Won't Be Long," and "I've Just Seen a Face."

a random sampling from my MP3 player here are my posted shuffles:

April 6

Against the Wind by Bob Seger
Judy is a Punk by The Ramones
Don't Think Twice It's Alright by Joan Baez & The Indigo GirlsDaddy Sang Bass by Johnny Cash
Freedom of the Road by Martin Sexton

April 11

Johnny Hit and Run Pauline by X
It's True That We Love One Another by The White Stripes
Crazy Love by Van Morrison
Lullaby by Dixie Chicks
It Must Have Been Love by Roxette


April 25

Get closer by Seals and Croft
If Wishes Were Horses by Claire Lynch
If It Ever Stops Rainin' by Graham Parker
Lovin', Touchin', and Squeezin' by Journey
Runaway by Avril Lavigne

Saturday, May 03, 2008

Eleven Years Old and Loving Every Minute of It

A few months ago a question from my friend Jennifer sent me searching through my childhood diary for answers. This diary, a birthday gift in 1984, is truly the greatest source of nostalgic pleasure. Every kid should write in one so they have something to laugh at 20 years later. Or in my case, 24 years later. Written in purple pen on the inside cover is the phrase, "I'm 11 years old and lovin' every minute of it." After reading the entire diary cover to cover, I tend to believe it.

My heart aches just a bit as I read about all the time I spent with my cat and my cabbage patch kids out there on the farm. There's a bittersweet humor in the words of this naive, childish, little girl who was once me. It's also incredibly funny the things I commented on and the attitudes I had about certain things. Most of all, I love the flood of memories that hit me when I read mention of places, people, and things I've not thought of in ages. I have no idea if this is something anyone else might enjoy, but for my own amusement I'm going to start posting an entry from the diary once a week. After all, Oscar Wilde once said, "I never travel without my diary. One should always have something sensational to read in the train."

Monday June 18, 1984

Dear Diary,
Today was fabulous. The greatest thing happened. I got to babysit. It was at our house. Karen brought Brian over and I babysat for about two hours in the afternoon. Everything was fine. I got $2.00. Tomorrow is the Cando Fair. I'm feeling kind of sick at heart. Because of the most wonderful show on television was just on. It was called "Somewhere in Time." I must see that show again. I must. It had the saddest ending. The main character was played by Christopher Reeve, "Superman."

Love,
Carmyn

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This entry reveals not only how prices of babysitting have gone up, but also how even back then I was all about the movies. That's one of my favorite things in the diary.--reading my first reaction to films and music. For those curious, click here for more information on Somewhere in Time.

Friday, May 02, 2008

Wacky for Wilco.

Lately I've been a concert-going fool and I've just decided I need to do this more. I love live music--everything from Whiskey Vaccine, at a local bar in Grand Forks to 25,000 peopled crowds at Bon Jovi. Yet, last night's Wilco concert was perfect. In size, in venue, in opening act, in sound, in spirit. I loved it.

I'm not a die-hard Wilco fan. Truth be told, my concert tickets were free and I had a hard time finding someone who'd actually heard of Wilco. But after the concert experience, I can't believe that is the case--my guess is their absence from main stream local radio leaves them off most people's radar. I have a few songs from their album Yankee Hotel Foxtrot and my favorite song is one on a compilation disc I got from Marci a few years back "I'm the Man Who Loves You" which has a sort of 60's, Monkees, Brit pop feel. Before the concert I had a chance to preview their latest CD Sky Blue Sky and I didn't have that much of an initial impression. Perhaps it's just hard to compete with my current love of The Shins album Wincing the Night Away.

After the concert I am all fired up to find the songs I heard live. I loved all of them. While I recognized a few from the new album ("Hate it Here," "Impossible Germany," "You Are My Face") and a few from Yankee Hotel Foxtrot ("Pot Kettle Black," "Jesus Etc.") I felt the live performance breathed a kind of magic and wonder into every song, familiar and not-so-much. Perhaps I need a live CD?

Retribution Gospel Choir (the opening act)

My favorite song? "Hatchet" which is apprently a Low song, but I like RGC's version quite a lot.

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